Reaching out to parents of teensReply to this Comment
Hi.
My name is Marsha Finkelstein, I'm a parent educator and life coach, focusing on parents of teens and pre-teens. I am looking for ways to connect with parents as I reach out in my local and in the virtual community. Any thoughts on how to connect/reach out to parents is most helpful.
Thanks
Marsha Finkelstein
Parent Educator & Life Coach
Moving Beyond Coaching & Consulting
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New Internet Resource for Parents of Teens.Reply to this Comment
My wife and I have had custody of our nephew for the past 9 years. We have had some recent issues with some difficult behaviors and Will (my nephew) just recently returned home. To offer some structured mental processing for Will and me, and to offer information to people in similar situations, we are recording a podcast of conversations of our recent days at home. The recordings of these conversations are available at http://atroubledteen.wordpress.com and http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/14792. I would love if these could be distributed to others who are either experiencing relative placement or work with these families.
Help for parentsReply to this Comment
In response to the couple who is caring for their nephew...first of all, I admire your sacrifice. My little sister really struggled throughout her teenage years. I think when a teenager...or an adult struggles, it is because they really don't know themselves. My parents, out of pure love, sent my sister to Anasazi. This program is amazing. If you have ever heard of wilderness therapy programs, forget what you have heard. This place is about love. My sister said she has never been surrounded by so much love in her life. The purpose of the program is to provide an environment for youth to be away from all that distracts them from the truth...which is their greatness. In a fresh and new environment, these youth really do began to see themselves as they really are. They build confidence and a real sense of worth and love for themselves. My sister returned from the program so happy...and alive...realizing how amazing she was. While children are out there, parents attend an intense workship during which they learn about and explore their own interpersonal relationships. During the last two days of their child's time at the program, parents join their child in the wilderness, in the place of peace that that child has created. You might want to check it out at www.anasazi.org.
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Prom Night - Transportation Worries Be Gone!Reply to this Comment
Hi everyone, my name is Terry Firsch and I wanted to share these tips with other parents who may be going crazy over prom night...
1. Ask the transportation company for the Prom Promise. This is a document that teens sign in agreement of not drinking or taking drugs on Prom night. Many limousine and chauffeured transportation companies offer this contract as a way to give parents an outlet to discuss the importance of safety on Prom with their teens.
2. Give the transportation company a curfew. That’s right; the chauffer will abide by any rules you set forth, and will make sure to pick up and drop off your kids at a designated hour. This is a great way ensure your kids make it home on time, no excuses.
3. Check with industry associations to make sure the company you choose is reputable. Companies who belong to industry associations usually must abide by special insurance regulations and service rules. Reputable associations such as the National Limousine Association (NLA) and the local livery association are good indications that your service provider does their due diligence. If you are still stuck, consult www.nlaride.com. The National Limousine Association’s website lists licensed, properly insured limousine professionals by community. Consumers can compare services, pricing, vehicle availability and receive non-binding online price quotes.
4. Set some ground rules. As the parent, you have the right to tell the transportation company what will and will not be tolerated in the vehicle. For example, you can ask that the chauffer keep the privacy screen down for the entire ride, so that he/she has a full grasp of what your kids are up to. If any of your rules are broken, the chauffer can turn the car around and bring your kids home.
5. Remember to sit back and relax. A reputable company hires drivers with proper training and licensing. Theses chauffeurs are used to carting around excited passengers all day long, so they know how to keep things under control.
Pointers for Limos on Prom NightReply to this Comment
1. Ask the transportation company for the Prom Promise. This is a document that teens sign in agreement of not drinking or taking drugs on Prom night. Many limousine and chauffeured transportation companies offer this contract as a way to give parents an outlet to discuss the importance of safety on Prom with their teens.
2. Give the transportation company a curfew. That’s right; the chauffer will abide by any rules you set forth, and will make sure to pick up and drop off your kids at a designated hour. This is a great way ensure your kids make it home on time, no excuses.
3. Check with industry associations to make sure the company you choose is reputable. Companies who belong to industry associations usually must abide by special insurance regulations and service rules. Reputable associations such as the National Limousine Association (NLA) and the local livery association are good indications that your service provider does their due diligence. If you are still stuck, consult www.nlaride.com. The National Limousine Association’s website lists licensed, properly insured limousine professionals by community. Consumers can compare services, pricing, vehicle availability and receive non-binding online price quotes.
4. Set some ground rules. As the parent, you have the right to tell the transportation company what will and will not be tolerated in the vehicle. For example, you can ask that the chauffer keep the privacy screen down for the entire ride, so that he/she has a full grasp of what your kids are up to. If any of your rules are broken, the chauffer can turn the car around and bring your kids home.
5. Remember to sit back and relax. A reputable company hires drivers with proper training and licensing. Theses chauffeurs are used to carting around excited passengers all day long, so they know how to keep things under control.
impathy vs. apathyReply to this Comment
I'm having the hardest time teaching my daughter to be impathetic. She's sixteen, and according to development scientist all of the wiring isn't in place for her to formulate those feelings of concern and compassion. But then I was watching myself and realised I was a poor example. I wasn't saying please and thank-you. I was more concerned about the feelings of my dog rusty than those of my neighbor. Who just divorced his wife. I guess this is more of a comment than a question. Impathy, I think isn't about physical developement it about moral and spiritual a developement. And it's about watching what your child cares about. And remembering what's important. Impathy isn't a bad word, is it. Can I relearn how to be impathetic in mt dad to day. And teach my daughter as well. And help her through her angst and apathy. leading by example.
J. T. Thomas wrote:
"I'm having the hardest time teaching my daughter to be impathetic. She's sixteen, and according to development scientist all of the wiring isn't in place for her to formulate those feelings of concern and compassion. But then I was watching myself and realised I was a poor example. I wasn't saying please and thank-you. I was more concerned about the feelings of my dog rusty than those of my neighbor. Who just divorced his wife. I guess this is more of a comment than a question. Impathy, I think isn't about physical developement it about moral and spiritual a developement. And it's about watching what your child cares about. And remembering what's important. Impathy isn't a bad word, is it. Can I relearn how to be impathetic in mt dad to day. And teach my daughter as well. And help her through her angst and apathy. leading by example."
I just watched a screening of American Teen, with my duaghter and we enjoyed it together. Subtly answering so many of my questions. I guess we should never forget as parents what it was like to be a teen. And to hold the care and concern we wanted as teens and give that to our teens now. We also joined eachother in the facebook application. www.facebook.com/americanteen. It was a refreshing documentary to say the least. Watch American Teen. And then watch the Breakfast Club. Then compare and Contrast your thoughts and feelings.
Protecting Your Teen OnlineReply to this Comment
Hi. I wanted to help all of the parents out there who are looking to protect their children from the dangers of online pornography. The solution is SeeNoEvil. The exposure of pornography to your children can be life altering. This software has worked in our house. I'm confident it will in yours too.
my trouble teenReply to this Comment
i have a son that is out of control hes 19 all he does is smokes mariguana and drinks and hangs around with his friends,he quit school i tried night school which he quit too no matter how much i talk to him and try to help him he ignores me,what else can i do? i'm so drain i'm getting physically sick. help please or suggestions will be very much appreciated.
Strength in numbersReply to this Comment
Folks,
I am lost and don't know where to turn. I've got a 14 year old who is out of control. Divorced from his mom, I work 2nd shift and am not able to help with the guidance and discipline he needs. I have 2 others following in his footsteps. I have asked many times for the Alternate Ed school to evaluate and help me put him in programs to help. Not a word back from them. I am at the end of my rope. If someone has some ideas, something they have done please let me know. I'm afraid I don't have much time left before I lose my boy. All the talking in the world doesn't help. Please please help my boy. I am truly to the point of quitting my job so I can be home in the evenings to be with them. But then again I need to feed, cloth and shelter them. My name is dan Parkhurst, e-mail parkhurst372@yahoo.com.
tweety wrote:
"i have a son that is out of control hes 19 all he does is smokes mariguana and drinks and hangs around with his friends,he quit school i tried night school which he quit too no matter how much i talk to him and try to help him he ignores me,what else can i do? i'm so drain i'm getting physically sick. help please or suggestions will be very much appreciated."
I know how you feel. I'm sorry I don't have any asnwers I am looking for some myself. Keep in touch and keep praying.
tweety wrote:
"i have a son that is out of control hes 19 all he does is smokes mariguana and drinks and hangs around with his friends,he quit school i tried night school which he quit too no matter how much i talk to him and try to help him he ignores me,what else can i do? i'm so drain i'm getting physically sick. help please or suggestions will be very much appreciated."
I know how you feel. I'm sorry I don't have any asnwers I am looking for some myself. Keep in touch and keep praying.
Katricia wrote:
"In response to the couple who is caring for their nephew...first of all, I admire your sacrifice. My little sister really struggled throughout her teenage years. I think when a teenager...or an adult struggles, it is because they really don't know themselves. My parents, out of pure love, sent my sister to Anasazi. This program is amazing. If you have ever heard of wilderness therapy programs, forget what you have heard. This place is about love. My sister said she has never been surrounded by so much love in her life. The purpose of the program is to provide an environment for youth to be away from all that distracts them from the truth...which is their greatness. In a fresh and new environment, these youth really do began to see themselves as they really are. They build confidence and a real sense of worth and love for themselves. My sister returned from the program so happy...and alive...realizing how amazing she was. While children are out there, parents attend an intense workship during which they learn about and explore their own interpersonal relationships. During the last two days of their child's time at the program, parents join their child in the wilderness, in the place of peace that that child has created. You might want to check it out at www.anasazi.org."
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tweety wrote:
"i have a son that is out of control hes 19 all he does is smokes mariguana and drinks and hangs around with his friends,he quit school i tried night school which he quit too no matter how much i talk to him and try to help him he ignores me,what else can i do? i'm so drain i'm getting physically sick. help please or suggestions will be very much appreciated."
According of many researchers substance addiction is simply defined as a compulsive need for an intoxicating liquid that is obtained from fermented grain or fruit. These liquids include beer, wine, and other hard liquors. it says like every form of addiction is bad, no matter whether the narcotic be alcohol or morphine or idealism. and Alcohol addiction may also inflame the mouth, esophagus, and stomach, and could cause cancer in these areas, especially in drinkers who also smoke. Have a desire to stop the Alcohol and Drug addiction. You must have a serious desire to stop from being an alcoholic, but trust me it isnt an easy thing to do, in our rehab, the patients who come, most of them have been been with us before. the treat ment is tough, more or less it is same, for each other addictions, but the patients are dealt differently. i case of teens it is difficult as chances of relapse is more in them
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A mother on a mission..Reply to this Comment
Never underestimate a mother on a mission...
The son of a friend of mine had just gotten his license when he made a "rookie" mistake and totaled the family car. Fortunately, he
was okay. So horrified by the accident and what could have happened,
his mother began to really look at the teen driving crisis; the
number one killer of TEENS in the US.
Then...this mother made a promise and a plan to do something proactive in powerful to DRIVE change.
A few days ago she launched STEER STRAIGHT:
www.steerstraight.com
This teen driver safety membership network uses "How is my TEEN
Driving?" bumper stickers, a 24/7 alert communication network and an
interactive website to educate and empower teens behind the wheel.
The teaching modules alone are effective and powerful and in both
English and Spanish. Also, a portion of the proceeds from the membership fee will support a teen empowerment organization
called, "Make the Dash Count" (www.makethedashcount.org)creating
youth philanthropy boards across the country and granting money to
organizations that help youth "at risk." All good....all empowering.
You can now receive a 10 percent discount by using this promo code: 7FC
Just click JOIN NOW on the Steer Straight website and the promo code
box is at the bottom of the online membership form.
Please spread the word....and the promo codes --
July is the deadliest month of the year for TEEN driving
fatalities...let's empower each other to "make a difference."
If this program saves one TEEN it's priceless...
A TOAST to our kids and keeping them safe and ALIVE!!!
Karen
skiefer1@comcast.net
A mother on a mission..Reply to this Comment
Never underestimate a mother on a mission...
The son of a friend of mine had just gotten his license when he made a "rookie" mistake and totaled the family car. Fortunately, he
was okay. So horrified by the accident and what could have happened,
his mother began to really look at the teen driving crisis; the
number one killer of TEENS in the US.
Then...this mother made a promise and a plan to do something proactive in powerful to DRIVE change.
A few days ago she launched STEER STRAIGHT:
www.steerstraight.com
This teen driver safety membership network uses "How is my TEEN
Driving?" bumper stickers, a 24/7 alert communication network and an
interactive website to educate and empower teens behind the wheel.
The teaching modules alone are effective and powerful and in both
English and Spanish. Also, a portion of the proceeds from the membership fee will support a teen empowerment organization
called, "Make the Dash Count" (www.makethedashcount.org)creating
youth philanthropy boards across the country and granting money to
organizations that help youth "at risk." All good....all empowering.
You can now receive a 10 percent discount by using this promo code: 7FC
Just click JOIN NOW on the Steer Straight website and the promo code
box is at the bottom of the online membership form.
Please spread the word....and the promo codes --
July is the deadliest month of the year for TEEN driving
fatalities...let's empower each other to "make a difference."
If this program saves one TEEN it's priceless...
A TOAST to our kids and keeping them safe and ALIVE!!!
Karen
skiefer1@comcast.net
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"Hi. I wanted to help all of the parents out there who are looking to protect their children from the dangers of online pornography. The solution is SeeNoEvil. The exposure of pornography to your children can be life altering. This software has worked in our house. I'm confident it will in yours too. "
I have my nephew with me. He has totally become a problem child.He abuses elders and always try to bluff someone.He always tells lies.He does not respect anyone.
thanks
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By: movingbeyond Posted: Feb 23 2008