Lack of impulse control or impulsive child behavior is another way children with certain disorders such as ADHD or hyperactivity have been described. It is important for you to understand that this type of impulsive child behavior is not deliberate or willful. Armed with this level of understanding, it will be easier for you to cope with and correct impulsive child behavior. Studies done over the last few years have offered us many insights to the condition that is growing at an unbelievable rate. Children as young as 4 are being diagnosed with various behavior disorders, leaving parents desperate for answers.
Many child behavior specialists have come forward with some of the best techniques to curb impulsive behavior. Here are a few of the tips available through numerous online sources.
- You know your child better than anyone and are best equipped to recognize the warning signs that lead to his or her impulsive behavior. Look for signs of agitation, over-stimulation and frustration and intervene right away with redirection or a change of focus.
- Teach your child strategies for relaxation and anger management such as controlled breathing, yoga, even laughing. Believe it or not, laughter is probably one of the easiest and best methods to bring your child out of an impulsive behavior.
- Practice, practice, practice. Once your child has been taught some of these techniques, practice them often. Make them fun so that they may even initiate them on their own when they feel an impulsive behavior coming on. Do not push, pushing only leads to a power struggle between you and the child who already has enough trouble controlling behaviors.
Living with impulsive child behavior can be challenging, but learning and following a few techniques, and seeking appropriate help when needed, can make it easier for yourself, your child and your entire family. For further information on what you can do as the parent, contact your child’s school counselor. They will be more than happy to lead you to the proper resources.